He/She/They might have feelings but they don't want to tell you. Or you've become someone who's clingy, that needs to know every move they make and they don't wanna tell you. Back off'em. Maybe they're naturally a closed off person. Either way, it don't look like they're gonna tell you anything regarding feelings anytime soon so don't hold your breath. You can put the idea in your head that maybe they're a sheltered person or that they wanna shelter you and hold you close and love you.. blah, blah, blah. But, the 4 of Pents isn't really a romantic card or even a communication card. It's really about being greedy or closed off. Even at its best its saying "Maybe" because, yes, it is possible to have feelings. But, who the hell wants to wait around for that anyway? As advice I say, this is a new day and age ladies and gents so get the fuck off your high horse and open your mouth. You don't even have to do it old school all up in their face. There's soo many ways to communicate with somebody.. THE INTERNET people. Helloo! It's so easy (*smack across your face*). Man up! Can't have swag being closed off. That's gangster shit. But they gotta reason for being that way so that's an exception.
Anyway, if this is a crush you have.. aww that's cute.. grab some balls and ask them yourself how they feel because they might be too chicken-shit to come to you. If you're asking about how someone feels in general like someone you're already with, a co-worker, or even a friend maybe, then yeah.. they're holding something in and not telling you how they really feel. But, be careful though, because whatever they have to say might shock you if they are feelin some type of way - good or bad.
If this is how you feel than you gotta get out more and open up. Learn to be more social or find creative ways to share your personal information that not only shuts other people up but its not too revealing. Not everyone is out to get you. Don't be afraid to speak and be yourself because that's when you know who you're real friends are.
Friggin love this description it's perfectly state straight no chaser
ReplyDeleteThanks for that. Well, since the four of pents still isn't clear enough, I pulled a claryfier and that was 9 of pents. What do you think? Could it be he just doesn't want to open up about his feelings because he sees me as a big flirt?
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Uh, well 4 of pents is holding onto something. Usually it's material but can be thoughts, depending on the question. If you pull a 9 of pents clarifier card, which mostly means independence, I'd say he's keeping his thoughts to himself. Men are good for that.
DeleteThanks for that. Well, since the four of pents still isn't clear enough, I pulled a claryfier and that was 9 of pents. What do you think? Could it be he just doesn't want to open up about his feelings because he sees me as a big flirt?
ReplyDeleteThanks in advance!